Feedback is appreciated in any form, so thanks for sharing that with us, Artobest.
Leon, I don't honestly think this about balance, offending people, or getting things right (or wrong). We do what we do (be it endearing or otherwise) and we've ended up the way we've ended up. The tone of any discussion changes along with the seasons, the issue under discussion, the membership at the time, the FWers taking part in the specific discussion and so on.
I think on this specific thread there's absolutely no way of avoiding an 'insider' vibe and possibly something of a self-congratulatory tone, but certainly that's not the case with all posts.
If Artobest, Peter (?), is happy to drop by occasionally and participate in a low key manner, that's great.