water can be used, but you have to be very careful to stop the development before you go to the fixer otherwise you may experience dichroic fog - a sort of foggy-sheen across the surface of the paper. If you do use water, probably best to either change water a couple of times for each print, or have several trays filled with water to place the prints in for a while in each, but this will also need changing regularly.
Personally, i never use stop with film, but I always do with paper. A bit of fog on a neg can be printed through, but it will ruin a print.
You could use some citric acid in powder form if you can find it - about 15g per litre of water.
I suppose vinegar can be used, but I would be concerned about how the other chemicals in the vinegar would affect the print.
Hope that helps
L