looks like you are doing fine to me! wonderfully sharp and gorgeous tones on my macbook screen.
It's not clear from your post whether you are saying it is too contrasty ... but if it is printing well on grade 2 paper, then it is fine.
I wonder how fine the grain will be if you develop it in a fine grain developer like perceptol? I guess you;dd need to drop another stop or two in speed, but the tones will be magic I think.